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Jayme, what a great post! Small blogger, big blogger, medium blogger -- by what measure? Traffic? If we're talking about traffic to a blog, sure, we can measure that way. But I'll tell you what matters to me when we're talking about size of a blogger: Influence. 

And I don't mean the kind of influence Klout measures. I'm talking about the kind of influence that can change the course of a conversation by asking the right questions. The kind of influence that changes the way people think about a topic. The kind of influence that gets people off the sidelines and into the game. The kind of influence that can rally defenders to the side of someone who's being mistreated or disparaged. The kind of influence that brings people together for a common cause or goal. The kind of influence that can calm a heated thread and bring it back around. 

And you have influence in spades. 

Hey Jayme

Sorry, I'm later than ever today!

I tend to steer clear of most people that others would consider A-listers.  I want to engage, get to know people and build relationships.  Most A-listers won't give you the time of day!

I'm learning new stuff from everyone I meet and by engaging I'm also becoming more used to giving a little of myself in blogging and commenting.

I keep blogs on my RSS reader based on how I get on with the writer, how responsive they are to my and others comments and how they engage with me and others through social media.  So far that's working for me!

Sorry I am so late to this party. I still struggle even in my little tiny part of the internet. I really feel that I have yet to connect the way I want to with others. Worrying that my style just doesn't work for community building.

But then again, it is me every day that I put out there. When I do get comments it teaches me what works or doesn't. Everyday is a chance to try again. I get to apply all these lessons for clients and that makes me happy. That they do not have to struggle the same way I did to find my little patch. They get to have success right out of the gate!

Hi Jayme, Everybody has a voice. Everbody should exersize that voice. Therefore, everybody should blog. It will help you grow as a person in ways nothing else can. It will make you more intelligent.  It will make you more capable to contribute value to other people's lives. It will help you learn to share your ideas and experiences with others. It will unlock things about you that are kept in a tight vault right in the center of your being that you won't even notice until you start writing and hitting publish. There's no success or failure in blogging - only the unlocking of voice that people need to hear, whether that's one set of ears, or one million of them. And sometimes it may just be for your ears only. Big data, small data, either way, you have a voice, use it.  It only counts if you make it count and nobody can tell you otherwise. It's liberating.  It's so much more than a profession or business; its a way to a more fulifilling life. Cheers miss Daisy!

Ok. Very late to this party. Great post and because it has all been said I will simply say that the value of a blog is subjective. If you find one that is small (i.e. numbers) but it gives you what you need then there is value to YOU. That's all I've got. I hope it's enough.

Everybody starts the same way... By writing and clicking the "Publish" button for the first time. 

I started my blog so I would have a portfolio of writing to direct potential clients to. It's certainly a "micro" at this stage and as long as it's original content we all have something to contribute. Just because some bloggers have been around longer doesn't make their work any more or less valuable. It takes guts to put creative work out there. Keep up the good work!

Did @thejoshuawilner just really do that in my house? Completely ignored my post and answered @ginidietrich and didn't even say hi to me? Hmmm...I think, Twin, I'm gonna take that as a huge compliment and not an oversight because maybe he thought he was at Spin Sucks with all the cool comments and awesome content? 

So true, Jayme! I remember how scared I was to hit that "Publish" button the first time. I had to call a friend who talked me through it. I know how very difficult it is to publish a blog and I have seen quite a few drop by the wayside through the years.

Congratulations to you for your success. You're big and awesome!!!

Utterly awesome Jayme. This is such a powerful post. It's super difficult maintaining a blog, keeping going, entering into the blogosphere. And I've found it quite difficult stepping up to the next level myself until I started doing something different. Podcasting. And then it's my pal @berniejmitchell who has helped me get connected with some of the big guns. 

You're an inspiration Jayme! 

I love how people claim big blogs don't matter than they tout their blog rank and lists mentioned in everywhere.  I don't think it matters. I've studied quite a bit on influence, and its likely that 5 Soulatis are far more important than one Copyblogger for a variety of reasons which I care not to explain for fear of dropping a 2000 word comment.  Rest assured, you are quite influential, perhaps more so with your peers.

I'm big.........really big...........in my own mind. When I first hit the publish button it was with trepidation; I thought 'what if people find out I'm a blogger?' I know most of my IRL friends don't get it. I love the interaction and the new people I have met.

Big or little, who cares; one foot in front of the other I suppose for now. 

Look at all the cool answers you're getting here @Soulati | B2B Social Media Marketing . I was struck with "chopped liver mentality" last week (to coin a phrase from Bill Dorman), so your second last bullet point is the best advice for me. The human side's the only side, and although I have broad shoulders, I definitely don't have a thick skin. But I'm putting that chapter behind, and forging ahead. All of your points are well taken, and I'll be keeping them front of mind. Cheers! Kaarina

Well said! I'm fairly new tot he blogging scene, having posted my first entry back in February, . At first I was numbers-obsessed, feeling I was nothing without a large following. But over time I've come to appreciate my tiny band of followers, 29, and knowing they anticipate my weekly blogs. I still publicize as much as I can through Twitter, Facebook, and Linked in and welcome all my "one read stands." Maybe one day they'll convert to believer status. But until then, it's me and my homeys meeting once a week at "my place."

This article is right on time for me. I launched my blog last week and really don't expect to have many followers for several months. I know that my blog has a greater purpose (even greater than me promoting myself, LOL) and I plan to stick to what I know and GROW from there.

Interesting that their case studies are all bloggers who blog for bloggers. Where is the example of someone who blogs about fly-fishing and has an enormous following?

Quality has nothing to do with the amount of traffic you generate. Or even the number of comments. As we know from our business and marketing basics, we're looking for value when we spend our money, and our time. Your blog delivers a lot of value. I'm sure you know that. I still think the "little" blogger comment was insensitive. (I didn't see the original context, but still... ) But in the end, it doesn't matter what that guy thinks. I could tell you what I think of his email marketing, but I'll just say I unsubscribed from him. And keep following you.

Great article. So many people focus on numbers instead of quality, consistency, and great content. There's nobody small in this sphere. But there are alot of big egos...