Know Who Influences You And Why
I met this high-energy gent in the comments section right here. He was highly supportive, encouraging, complimentary, and so much more. A guest post came about, and I’m so happy to finally get my act together enough to publish what’s below.
My curiosity got the better of me after reading it and I dug deeper to learn more. Jason is a multi-talented man – he earns his keep coaching, selling artwork, selling photography, writing, and I know there are other ways, too.
We’re getting a hint today of a Ryze Success E-Course (on its way to you) Jason has developed, and he says, “You now have an exclusive sneak peek into a life-changing course that helps people Define Who They Are, which in a world of lost, confused, complexity, is immensely valuable.”
Here’s more from Jason Fonceca of Ryze Online and Ryze Up:
Let’s get right to it.
Check it out — your value is unique, but it’s unique because you’ve copied so many others.
You’ve lived tons and tons of unique experiences, and through those experiences, you’ve been exposed to tons of humanity’s historic role models and legends.
You’re inspired very strongly, by three key people who came before you, whether you realize it or not. That inspirational person who came before may be your Dad, or someone else equally important.
Influences and inspirations are part of every person’s story. (Yes, you can have more than three, but there’s generally three core ones). It looks something like this:
The thing is — it kinda
sucks when you have this unique story, brewing inside you, which is the combination and evolution of the people who’ve come before you, and laid the foundations.
As your life grows, you will become the inspiration for someone in the next generation, but you will not be their sole, single, only inspiration — they will have three of their own, contributing to their unique story.
I have a small exercise I recommend to people, to help them zone in on their unique story by clarifying their unique inspirations. I call it The Role Model Overlap, and you can see it below. Hopefully it’s self-explanatory. You write down in the circles three key inspirations in your life. If you want to see a real-life example, mine is detailed in diagram two.
So here’s your next step.
Realize that humanity is a team effort, and the people before you have paved the way and contributed to your story.
Then get a piece of paper, sketch out 3 circles, and write down your inspirations. You’ll gain a ton of clarity on what unique value you bring to the table, and the next time you talk to someone and they ask what you do you’ll say something like “I’m a unique blend of X,Y, and Z, and I’m all me.”
So you have a fun, simple next step — Now share with us! Who are your 3 key inspirations?
Who laid the foundation for you?
Jason Fonceca stands for “Sexy Success.” He helps people get from where they are, to where they want to be, with clarity and style, offering fresh perspectives, a free Success E-Course, and rock-solid guidance at http://RyzeOnline.com. He is a successful blogger here.
EdibleLandscapeDesign Whoa... that's pretty cool Pat! Can you tell me more about Maria Rodale, that's someone I'm not familiar with. (Maybe I'll wiki :P)What I find most interesting, is that you're inspired by someone who's name you don't know offhand.Who *does* write the architectural digest? Would it suit you to know more about this person?
Thanks so much for weighing in and making ryze look good ;) You rock!
Jason Fonceca http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maria_Rodale ... one seriously awesome woman.
I haven't actually read Architectural Digest since I was a kid (my mom subscribed) ... but the images have always stuck with me.
I love the way your brain works dude...
I'm also completely on board with the "Your Value is Unique" mantra. That is powerful thought.
Thanks Jason!
Ryan Hanley Ahh Ryan, it is always refreshing to see your presence in my comments section. I generally know it's gonna be some like-minded high-fiving, and you know, that is a very valuable and "unique" thing :)Team Ryze + Team Soulati #ryzeUP :)
Love this! I am always looking back at who has influenced me and looking for the thread that ties it together. I never looked at it in the Venn diagram sort of approach, but it makes total sense. I would say my grandfather influenced me greatly, not necessarily that I follow in his footsteps, just the legacy that he leaves with me and the world in which he operated still pops up regardless of how much I turn away from it (politics, Jayme ;). The other two would be Cokie Roberts (don't laugh, it's true - smart, strong woman), and Nelson Mandela. Now, that's an interesting mix! Thanks for the exercise!
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EricaAllison Wonderful Erica! My pleasure, and thanks so much for sharing your influences :)
The Venn diagram approach is powerful because when you draw it / present it to people, for a number of reasons, they usually connect pretty well with it.I don't know your grandfather, but I'm gathering you're quite political, positive, and pro-family ;)Are your influences giving me a decent picture?
Great stuff, I really like this post :)
It lets you know who you are by writing out your personal Olympic symbol.
I took out a piece of paper right away and put down these 3:
Michael Jackson (the Grandaddy of dance), Gandhi (mr. open up the world) and Brad Pitt (crisp sexy-success).
Looks like a tool for people who have trouble "finding their voice" in their craft of choice. Looking forward to the E-course Jason!
ArthurHung Thanks so much man, I'm glad you got something out of it. MJ, Gandhi and Mr. Pitt are excellent inspirations, and gives me this picture - you're a handsome, surrendered, dancer :)
Hi, @ryzeonline, hmm, let me get LifeFyre to pull you in...
Thanks for your post today! It's fascinating to think about our past as a brick to our future. The people who customarily influence us (our family) in either positive or negative ways mold our future whether we're aware of it or not. But, then there are those we'd never put that tag to. They, too, can be influential...I wonder if it's a time thing. Can they be influential long term, or is that just for a brief period?
I'm envisioning bits of fabric sewn onto my life quilt and each swatch represents someone who had an impact on me -- became an influencer in my life. Is that a good analogy, Jason?
Soulati | B2B Social Media Marketing Excellent insight, Jayme ;)I find people can sometimes get hyper-focused on the immediate details of their lives (friends + fam), that they miss out on the massive impact that the previous generation has had - and continues to have - on them.
Threads woven in surely, and the three I'm talking about would be the 3 main, strongest, most dominant threads. Follow?
It is hard NOT to give attention to "the legends" in our hobbies and industries, we look up to them, follow in trails they blazed, and more. Understanding them lets you communicate a lot about yourself in a very short time, in a way that connects with anyone who's familiar with the same legends.When I say I'm a blend of Tony Robbins, Leonardo Da Vinci, and Hugh Hefner -- people get an immediate and powerful picture of who I am. It's clear for me and my brand, and it's clear for others.
It's not perfect, but what communication is? It's certainly powerful.








Ha! Love it.
I'd have to say Maria Rodale, Mike McGrath (former editor of Organic Gardening, he's on the "You Bet Your Garden" radio show), and whoever writes Architectural Digest.
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