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The Happy Friday Series: Books And Scoliosis

12/13/2013 By Jayme Soulati

X-ray-Scoliosis.jpgThere are people living online and in social media spheres with serious maladies and diseases. Sandy Appleyard is one of them, but until she wrote about having scoliosis, a curvature of the spine. Sandy, as many others, doesn’t necessarily keep this secret secret, she just doesn’t share it often.

I am so admiring of people who will be forthright with a possibly judgmental audience and share this kind of personal information. She does intense yoga to help her get through the countless hours of writing.

Sandy Appleyard Authors Books

I first met Sandy in my Google+ community (which is on the rocks, by the way). She shared her blog posts about books she had written, and we exchanged tips about WordPress and commenting systems. When you dive in a bit deeper to learn more, here’s a giveaway:

“I always write happy endings because I want my readers to leave my stories feeling intrigued, uplifted and entertained. I never leave a loose thread.”

She writes a blog, too, and it’s full of her travails through and around the publishing world. As she gains more experience, she shares it, like with this piece about understanding publishers’ rejection letters  or with this one about whether book sales are akin to product sales — hmm, interesting question!

I bet you most want to know about Sandy’s books, right?

From what I can tell, she has four available for the extremely reasonable price of $2.99 via ebook for Christmas and they are The Wife of a Lesser Man, I’ll Never Wear a Black Dress, Blessed and Betrayed, and The Message In Dad’s Bottle. The awesome quote on her website says she writes romance thrillers, but I leave you to investigate further.

Sandy is one of those authors doing it right. She engages on social media, she teaches others about her experiences, she is accessible and lacks arrogance, she’s responsive, and is so transparent about how she’s growing — page by page.

She’s a Canadian living in Niagra Falls (is that the U.S side or the Canadian side, Sandy?) with two kids who keep her too busy.

There’s one other secret I just have to share, a previous conversation had Sandy asking about whether she should use a pseudonym to write intriguing books of the sexual persuasion. Hmm, Sandy, how’s that going for ya, eh?

Thanks for writing for The Happy Friday Series: Finding Happy With Scoliosis.

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The Happy Friday Series: Finding Happy With Scoliosis

03/15/2013 By Jayme Soulati

“Let Your Backbone Slide.”  Do you remember that song?  I know….I’m showing my age.  But I’m not here to talk about old high school songs or rap music.  What I am here to talk about is taking the good with the bad and being happy, and letting things roll off your back, or letting ‘your backbone slide’, both figuratively and…well for me, literally.

Let me explain.  You see, I have Scoliosis.  For those unfamiliar, it’s a back deformity where the afflicted person has one, or in my case, two curves in their spine.  They can be in varying degrees, and for some, it doesn’t affect them.  Others require physical therapy, bracing or surgery for the severe cases.

xray1Here’s where my story comes in.  Doctors have seen me, orthopaedic and spinal surgeons have brought an audience in to see me, and…well, physiotherapists and massage therapists have been in awe when they see me for the first time.  As I said earlier; I have two curves in my spine, one at an angle of 48 degrees, the other 55 degrees.  Breathe!  Surgeons won’t touch me unless it’s a matter of life or death, so I’ve been in physiotherapy since I learned I had it about sixteen years ago, and I’ll be in physiotherapy for the rest of my life….and I’m very happy to be there too.

None of this is bad.  At least, I don’t think so.  Why you ask?  Because like many things in life that some of us fail to see, I consider having Scoliosis a blessing in disguise.

Quoted from my book ‘I’ll Never Wear a Backless Dress’, I said, “I made a deal with God.  I look after my body; he looks after my back.”  So far nobody’s broken that deal.

I’m in better physical shape than a lot of people I know, and I owe that to having Scoliosis.  How?  Because if I didn’t have it, I probably wouldn’t pay so much attention to my daily exercise regime, I wouldn’t keep my weekly physiotherapy appointments and I certainly wouldn’t watch my weight like I do.

How come?  Because I’m happy to have the physical freedom that I do, and I know that if I don’t keep up with all these things, it could be easily taken from me.  I have learned to love getting up at 4:45am to exercise, to revel in the wonderful things that I can do each day and to enjoy life and live it to the fullest.  I take nothing for granted and I couldn’t be happier with my life.

I believe that every day we’re given is a gift, and every healthy day we’re given is a very special gift that we should enjoy.

I’m resisting the urge to break into the lyrics to ‘Let Your Backbone Slide’…just fyi.

But seriously, don’t think of the things you can’t do….think of what you can do.  Despite having severe bilateral Scoliosis, I’ve got a college diploma, two kids, a husband, a happy and healthy home, four published books…and a loving cat.  What more could I ask for?

If you have a personal story that you’d like to share, please feel free….

Author Bio:

Sandy Appleyard is from Niagara Falls, Canada. As a prolific author, she loves reading, physical fitness, animals and of course, writing. Find all of her books via the links above or visit her website to subscribe and never miss a new publication.

 

 

 

 

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