The search for happiness in life can be an ever-winding road, with many peaks and valleys along the way. Most people know this; it’s no great secret.
Everyone is different. What brings them happiness is totally unique to them. The quest for happiness should be our paramount goal in life, as long as it doesn’t come at the expense of others.
Thanks to Jayme, I get to share the risk I took on a quest for happiness. I gave up a good career in a university to launch my very own adventure travel business, Treks West Tours.
Looking back, the risk was well worth it! Let me tell you my story…
Ever-Winding Road
My life followed a fairly standard path, and I’m sure you can relate — lack of focus as a youth; a quest for girlfriends as a young man; the search for better pay; lack of focus again as a young adult; you get the picture.
The first major step towards happiness was marrying Sheila, an amazing woman who understands the importance of finding happiness. With that achievement I was able to focus on other aspects of finding happiness. My eyes soon opened to travel in the great outdoors.
As my eyes widened toward adventure, they closed on the job where my passion was diminishing with time. Happiness shouldn’t be about money but it often masks other feelings or overrides them awhile.
What Matters
Ample vacation time allowed me to fall in love with the Southwest on a trip to Arizona. I saw the Grand Canyon for the first time, and it spoke to me. Coming from the green state of Maryland, the vast West lured me. I was hooked!
Every free moment we’d return to Colorado, New Mexico, Texas, Utah and add another layer to the passion I felt for the region.
National parks and wilderness areas became the focal point of our trips. I learned all I could by hiking the trails and rafting the rivers. I left my heart there each time I returned East to my passion-less career.
I found an affinity for the minutia of trip planning, researching a park and finding the best places to explore. Soon I was planning all the trips for Easterners who wanted to experience the great West.
The joy I felt out there equaled misery on the job. I lost purpose, began to tread water and brought those woes into my home life. Before I could ruin my solid foundation at home, my wife and I discussed the pros and cons of leaving my job.
I wanted to start an adventure travel business, and everyone agreed I’d be foolish not to try.
Taking The Leap
I gave a two-month notice to my employers after 12 years at the university. Money, while important, could not buy my happiness. Life is too short to spend bogged down; my wife and I agreed this was the leap to take.
I jumped into the business of building a website, creating tours, getting insurance and commercial permits along with all the marketing and planning that goes into the tedious parts of starting a business.
I began to network with other outfitters, hotel owners, national park rangers, and others. That was one of the really fun parts of the job; there are a lot of great folks out here!
On May 2011, I launched Treks West Tours, my stab at happiness, hiking, horseback riding, and white water rafting — my vision of what a western adventure should encompass!
It isn’t easy. Things aren’t great for the travel industry at the moment. High fuel prices and a weak economy are a problem, but I’m so much happier!
When I take a group to Moab or Big Bend or any other fabulous destination and see the looks of amazement in their eyes, it’s so fulfilling! I made the right choice. Following one’s passion is never a mistake! What could be better than getting paid to go on vacation all the time?
About The Author
Brian Wrabley is owner of Treks West Tours offering guided adventure tours of western national parks. Hiking, horseback riding, and white water rafting are his favorite featured activities.
Soulati | B2B Social Media Marketing says
Thanks for writing, Brian!
Remember, dear Readers, I’m seeking authors amongst you to contribute your measure of happy!
Thanks for considering!
KDillabough says
Soulati | B2B Social Media Marketing Jayme, I have one in progress for you…promise! I will get back to it this weekend and email it to you soon:) Promise!
Soulati | B2B Social Media Marketing says
I am always delighted to entertain a post from you, and I know how seriously busy you’ve been. Whenever you can get to it, Kaarina. Thanks!
KDillabough says
Brian, I so enjoy seeing your photos on fb, and I can say only this: Happiness rules! Good for you to take the leap and carve a life and lifestyle that, despite its challenges, rewards you each and every day. Cheers! Kaarina
BrianWrabley says
Thanks Kaarina! I’ve enjoyed getting to know you on FB, and like your photo’s and insights as well! You’re right, happiness rules!
equuisdancer22 says
Ohh..well Lookie who’s here today! Hi Brian and of course that crazy Lady who’s always in his photos, Shelia! What a Fun place to find you.
Brian does post some Fabulous photos of his Adventures. Always fun to look and dream. He’s a fun guy to chat with too, no question to silly!!
BrianWrabley says
Hi Ann! Thanks and thanks again for your continued support, and fun comments! I’m awaiting the day when you and that group of ladies take me up on that West Texas horseback adventure!
Mark_Harai says
Awesome story, Brian! Doing what you were born to do makes all the difference in the world! Cheers to your continued success, sir! : )
Hi, Jayme : )
Soulati | B2B Social Media Marketing says
His story is one of inspiration, for sure!
BrianWrabley says
Thanks Mark! It definitely does make the difference! I appreciate your kind words!
New England Multimedia says
This is my kind of story, Brian and Sheila! I’m so glad you took the leap, and shared your journey with us here. You just won a bunch of new customers, should any of us venture out west for a vacation.
BrianWrabley says
Thanks so much! We’re happy to tell our story! Looking forward to those new customers!